Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year from MrD and the Trophy H

Happy New Year from MrD and the Trophy H. This last year has been a lot of
giggles for me writing this tongue in cheek blog to dish some dirt, present some tasty food ideas, give a few travel tips and hopefully add a smile or a chuckle or two to your day.
This year, my silent reader, I am changing topics and heading into more exciting waters.
There is no great way to get this news out there but here goes for trying.
Four days before Christmas I was diagnosed with colon cancer that has spread to my
liver. How cool is that? Cancer Rocks!
I had been in hospital for a week and a half getting fast tracked through a lot of tests. Some of those tests involving chemically emptied colons and live cameras on site in places that should never be visited by operating rooms full of people one does not know. A wee bit nasty and uncomfortable.
I haven't been a patient in hospital since I was in my mid twenties, having my nose done. It took more time getting used to strangers walking in at all hours with
concerned professional smiles wanting to stick long sharp needles in my arms or take my temperature and blood pressure for the hundredth time.
December 20, I got the official reports after a conference with the medical
Team. I was given a discharge and sent home with MrD to celebrate the holidays.
MrD has been a pillar of strength and support through all this but when he heard the “Big C” word he collapsed. In the Philippines, where he grew up, there were and still are relatively fewer survivors. In MrD’s head he was already picking out a good blue suit and a box.
Because it was the holiday season there was no way they could get me into the Cancer
Center until January. I have since been notified that my first appointment is January13. In the mean time my goal is to get my strength back after that barrage of invasive testing. I lost a lot of weight I need to put back on my bones. I will need some reserves to combat the chemo treatments.
A recent report comparing six first world countries found that Canada rated tops in cancer survivors and British Columbia ranked the highest in the land. I have every right to feel optimistic.
You might recall, my silent reader, I always maintain a positive outlook on life and a sense of humour to get me through tough times. I am in great spirits and ready for a fabulous new year. None of us know the future. Often what we perceive to be horrible devastating news turns out down the road to be one of the best things that ever happened to us.
The only sad part is right now I will not be able to spend time back at our home in Asia, getting massages on the beach while I suck back fresh local mango and banana shakes.
That will be something to look forward to down the long and winding road.

10 comments:

  1. Neil - I will include you in my prayers. Get your strength up and fight that demon cancer with all you've got. Keep your wit and humour near and ask for help even when you don't feel like it.
    Deb (((hugs)))

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  2. Neil I'm sending you all we've got to help you fight through this! You've got every tool to help you through. I'm saying a prayer to every omniscient one I know on your behalf xxx

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  3. Cancer is being beaten all the time now, Neil, and I know your inner reserve of strength combined with a healthy lifestyle will see you through. It will be a tough battle and the effects of chemo are not to be taken lightly, but you will be a survivor. Too many people count on hearing your optimistic Monday salutes.

    I'm thinking about you and wishing you the best in this next life stage. Although I'm miles away, if I can be of any help, please tell me.

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  4. Neil I love the way you deal with life.
    You have strength and a wicked sense of humour.
    you are cute, caring and gifted.
    You will make it my friend.
    Best wishes to you.
    Hugs

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  5. Dear Neil...we are thinking of you and sending you best wishes from Germany. Will be back in about a week and looking forward to see you in Van! Deine Nachbarn Thomas, Anna & Petra.

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  6. Dear Neil, I'm sure you already know that you have the best friends and family in the world to draw strength from. We are all praying for you and wishing you a quick recovery.
    Love Shelley Lees

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  7. I am looking forward to the continuing diabolical dissection of all matters medical in the coming months
    xoxo
    barbara

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  8. Dear Neil ,
    I second what the other's have said .You have a huge spirit, and vast inner resources. This is a challenge , not a sentence. You have a powerful imagination and can use Visualization technique to put the cancer on the run . I will add you to my Aunt's visualization / healing network as well- They are a powerful lot and have helped a lot of people including me.
    Neil anything I can do let me know- including coming out west and providing maid/ nursey service - costume and all .
    I love you my friend and you are in my healing prayers and thoughts
    Love always,
    Marsha

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  9. You'll just have to find a good local source for some of those mango and banana shakes, maybe not quite as fresh off the trees. As always, your approach to life's challenges gives you a head start in dealing with the diagnosis and treatment. Nothing replaces the love and encouragement of family and friends. Kurt & I send you all our love and warm hugs, and the three kitties send their purrs and snuggles. Love to Dan and the poochie.

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  10. HUGS and HEALING ENERGY from Kurt's Mom!!

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